San Diego, CA - United States

Erin Sur

I specialize in personal growth and relationships. I help ensure your most meaningful relationships thrive; Individuals, couples, teens, families & teams. Personal, Professional, and Spiritual Coaching.


Business, Career, College, Executive Training, Free Consultation, Health, HR Development, Leadership Development, Marriage, Men, Mental Health Professionals, Ministry, Non-Profit, Parenting, Pastoral Leadership, Team Building, Wellness, Women, and Youth

Delivery Methods
Group, In-Person, and Virtual Meeting


Certified Enneagram Coach: Type 6

More about Erin Sur


Before I became a coach I worked in corporate for over 10 years. I enjoyed my career and gained valuable knowledge and experience.

I left the corporate world to raise my two beautiful children. I realized that being a mom was rewarding but I had more to give. I went back to school and became a Certified Life Coach. I later discovered the Enneagram tool and saw the insight and growth it brought to my clients. I extended my training and became a Certified Enneagram Coach as well.

I have a wealth of personal life experience I bring to my clients. Owning my own business, entrepreneur, working mom, married for 20 years, parenting two teens, spiritual mentoring, military & adhd.

Bringing insight and meaning to a person’s life is my passion. There is nothing I love more than working with others to help to beome who they really are, reach their goals and live a fulfilled life.

What I bring to my clients is my passion and insight. I provide training, experience, tools, support and accountability. You can check out my full coaching website at



Certified Ennegram Coach, Certified Life Coach, B.A. In Psychology


20-Minute Free Consultation
Our endorsed YEC certified coach will discuss your coaching needs, talk about the coaching process, answer any questions you have and see if we want to work together.
Discovering You Sessions
Your coach will help guide you in discovering your main Enneagram type.
Exploring You Sessions
There are five sessions in this series each with a customize Guide Sheet that your coach will guide you through so you can learn about your core motivations, behavior, relationships, personal growth, wings, triads, blindspots etc.
Becoming Your Truest Self
Your coach will help to address specific areas you want to work on to grow and develop specifically (personal, professional, and spiritual). We will come up with a personalized plan, equip you with practical tools and then implement so you can achieve the results you want.
Couples Coaching
In Couples Coaching we work on the given goals you have for our time together so the conversation can be customized for your relationship growth. This can include conflict style, connection, communication, triggers, defense mechanisms & how to speak each other’s language.
Team Coaching
The Enneagram is a wonderful tool for helping teams understand one another and work together more effectively. The Enneagram can help with issues such as emotional intelligence, seeing their strengths, struggles and differences in how we communicate and make decisions. How to be the most efficient, productive and happier at work and in your team.
Group Coaching
Group coaching is a great opportinity to learn about yourself and others within a group. It can be a group of different types or a group with the same type. In this time we taylor what your group wants to focus on. Each individual will have receive materials on their number, discussion, Q & A, watch videos and other options.

Please select an offering to view payment options.


Working with Erin as my Enneagram Coach has been such a blessing in my life. Our coaching conversations were so insightful, and opened my eyes to areas in my life where I had blind spots. Erin has a unique ability to create a safe space, never judging, while still coaching effectively to help you get to where you need to go. As a result of our sessions, I’m already seeing changes in my closest relationships.
Nicole P – Asst. Manager, Community Engagement at Thrivent Financial

I hired Erin as my personal coach at a time when I was feeling stuck and determined to make changes in my life. She helped me understand new aspects of myself and others through the enneagram. In addition she provided accountability, resources and practicals to help me grow. Because of our sessions I have increased clarity, made changes in my life and now know what I need to embrace or avoid.
Elizabeth S – Marketing

As a result of just 5 sessions with Erin, I experienced significant personal growth. I gained awareness of the reasons behind my tendencies in my job and in my personal relationships. I am more confident in my own skin which gives me courage to lean in, speak up and take opportunities.
Kerry P – Nurse Practitioner UCSD

Have you ever worked a puzzle and come close to having it all together, only to realize that the essential pieces were missing? Like the ones that made the puzzle make sense? Erin guided me to find my missing pieces through our work with the Enneagram. Her guidance with the enneagram gave me great introspection that allowed me to focus on my strengths as well as my weaknesses. Being able to identify those missing pieces provided emotional growth both professionally and personally. It gave me a new awareness of how to achieve realisitc and fulfilling goals. The intimate details of the work and the findings were profound.
Kellie S – Doula/Stay at home mom

Erin is absolutely wonderful to work with. She is professional, organized and on time! We brought her in to do corporate Enneagram training with our State Farm team which really helped us to improve communication, reduce conflict, prevent misunderstandings and increase motivation amongst our team members. Erin’s coaching helped us as leaders, to promote cooperation and collaboration with our team. Which in turn, ensured that our team now feels seen, heard and valued for the individual contributions they make to the teams success.
I highly recommend Erin Sur!
Amy D State Farm Team Leader

Erin is a breath of fresh air! I’m so lucky I found her. She has been essential in helping me figure out my life. I’ve enjoyed every session and have seen so much personal growth. I highly recommend her services!
Danielle B Entrepreneur

Enneagram Coaching with Erin was incredibly useful to me because I value personal and spiritual growth. Each session helped me to understand myself on a deeper level and grow in self-awareness, revealing my strengths and weaknesses more clearly. I liked the structure of the coaching because it not only works with abstract concepts, but also emphasizes application. Through Erin’s thought provoking questions, patience and insight, I was able to identify concrete examples of my unhealthy tendencies that cause damage to myself and my relationships. Erin then helped me to come up with practical ways to combat these tendencies, improving my thought patterns, communication style, and relationships. Erin did a beautiful job of encouraging, affirming, and supporting me throughout the process. She has an amazing ability to listen to empathize with whoever she’s talking with, and I always felt comfortable sharing myself with her. I finished my time with Erin feeling more confident, grounded, and equipped to face the problems in my life. I highly recommend Enneagram Coaching with Erin to anyone who values self-improvement.
Julia H – Analyst at RCLCO

“Erin is equal parts super-charged accountability partner and ‘half-time-in-the-locker-room’ coach. She really helped me achieve my greatest productivity.”
James R – Writer

I loved working with Erin as I was able to talk through aspects of my personality in view of my childhood and my motivations. The guide sheets provided insightful questions and valuable information about myself and my enneagram number which made it easy to apply to my life. Having Erin lead the discussions was so helpful because it gave me a safe place to express how I was feeling and reacting. Erin was first and foremost quick to listen, while also providing her insight and helping me to process all of the realizations I was having. I am especially thankful for the spiritual emphasis provided in the questions and through Erin’s own spiritual wisdom. I had the opportunity of understanding myself better as the woman God has created me to be in light of the Holy Spirit working through me! I would refer the Enneagram Coaching to anyone who desires to understand themselves better while simultaneously seeing how God wants to use their strengths and weaknesses for His glory.”
Caroline H – Student at Point Loma Nazarene

Terms and Conditions       Privacy            © 2022 Your Enneagram Coach