Portland, Oregon - United States

Kris Rocha

I help women heal, reclaim trust, redefine security, and reaffirm their identity after betrayal.


Free Consultation, Marriage, Ministry, Non-Profit, Pastoral Leadership, Team Building, Wellness, Women, and Youth

Delivery Methods
In-Person and Virtual Meeting


Certified Enneagram Coach: Type 7

More about Kris Rocha

Hello! I’m Kris.

Wife, mom, coach, coffee drinker, water enthusiast, and lover of people. My happy place is somewhere warm with my snorkel gear on and no clock in sight. I’m a jeans and t-shirt girl most days, with a serious case of wanderlust. I enjoy agate hunting on the beaches of the Oregon coast, genealogy, and quality time around a fire pit with family and friends.

I’ve been on a faith journey most of my life, and I’ve learned that seasons of struggle and suffering have produced the deepest intimacy with God. During these times, I have experienced the sweetness of God’s grace in ways I couldn’t have otherwise.

In recent years I’ve heard others use the phrase, “God showed up.” In my journey, I have come to know God doesn’t “show up,” because He never leaves us in the first place. He is constant. I hope you will feel His intimate, constant presence in our time together, as well as grace, empathy, kindness, and compassionate acceptance.

*Kris earned an AA in Communication Studies from Sierra College and a Certificate in Theology from Capitol Bible Institute. She is also a graduate of Western Seminary’s Certificate in Advanced Transformational Coaching Program (ACTC), a member of ICF (International Coaching Federation), a Pastoral Sex Addiction Professional (PSAP) with IITAP (The International Institute for Trauma and Addiction Professionals) and Enneagram Certified. Kris also leads weekly Betrayal & Beyond women’s group meetings with Pure Desire International Ministries.


ACTC, PSAP, APSATS, Enneagram Certified


30-Minute Consultation
Let's unlock the full potential of personalized coaching together! I am an endorsed YEC-certified coach. I will expertly navigate you through YEC's meticulous three-step coaching process, ensuring you find the ideal coaching package tailored precisely to your needs and goals. Your journey towards transformative growth starts HERE.
Discovering You Sessions
We’ll go on a journey to help you discover your Enneagram type. Through personalized sessions with reflection and powerful questions, you will be skillfully led toward uncovering your core Enneagram type – an essential step in understanding your inner motivations, behaviors, and potential areas for growth. As we partner together, we'll embark on a thought-provoking exploration of your personality, delving deep into the intricacies of the Enneagram system. This process will not only reveal your main Enneagram type but also shed light on the subtle nuances that make you uniquely you. It's my job as your coach to ensure that this journey is both enlightening and enriching. With a firm understanding of your Enneagram type, you'll gain valuable insights into your strengths, weaknesses, and opportunities for personal development. This newfound awareness will serve as a compass, guiding you toward a more fulfilling and fruitful life.
Exploring You Sessions
Embark on an enriching journey with a series of five thoughtfully designed sessions. Each session comes complete with a personalized Guide Sheet that our dedicated coach will expertly navigate you through. This approach ensures a balanced and effective learning process, allowing you to embrace growth without feeling overwhelmed. Your development is our priority, and these guided sessions offer a seamless path to your goals.
Becoming Your Truest Self
Upon successfully completing the Discovering and Exploring You sessions, I'll come alongside you to guide the integration of your newfound insights into your everyday life (personal, professional, and spiritual) and to help you leverage your dreams, goals, and aspirations. It's time to plan your future!
Betrayal Transformation Coaching
If you’ve experienced the pain of betrayal trauma and sought the help of a licensed counselor to help you do the work needed to heal, this is your next step…and I’m excited about it! I’m interested in helping you move past the trauma you’ve experienced and into transformation – “to change in form, appearance, nature or character.” Who are YOU? What are your dreams? What are your core values, hopes, gifts, strengths, goals, and skill set? How are you uniquely equipped to love others and purposefully affect the world? What strengths have you acquired from the hardship you experienced? How can you make your mess, your message? How have you already transformed? One of my favorite passages in the Bible comes from Isaiah 61:3 “…to bestow on them a crown of beauty instead of ashes, the oil of joy instead of mourning, and a garment of praise instead of a spirit of despair.” If you’re ready to trade in ashes, mourning, and despair for beauty, joy, and praise, reclaim your sense of self, know from the depths of your soul that you have great worth and value, build confidence, and begin to dream again, I’m here to help you do just that.
Divine Design
This type of coaching focuses on helping you realize your unique purpose in Christ, using individual discovery to help you discover, articulate and leverage your divine design for the greatest world impact. Divine Design is a 6-session coaching package that helps you discover how you are uniquely made. The objective of this program is to help you clearly articulate who you are so you can move forward with purpose, confidence and intention. In order to do this, Divine Design uses several specific tools and assessments (including the enneagram) that will identify your strengths, personality, and spiritual gifts. - Your greatest kingdom impact comes when you are operating out of your own divine design. - Your greatest frustration comes when you are trying to operate out of another person’s divine design. God created you uniquely. How you are wired (personality), how you are strengthened (strengths), and how you are empowered (spiritual gifts) all combine to make you His own special creation. It is your Divine Design.
Personal Coaching
Feeling stuck in an area of your life but don’t know where to start? Through one-on-one coaching, I’ll help you take a step back to see the big picture so you can get to where you want to be. By its very nature, Personal Coaching assumes the client is a whole, creative, intelligent individual and has all the answers inside of themselves. It is the Coach’s job to partner with the client in a creative process to draw out those answers through powerful listening and questions. Coaching involves a relationship built on trust and mutual respect. It is an alliance that is designed by you and your coach for the purpose of helping you realize your full potential. Coaching helps you identify goals and, at its best, is a very collaborative journey to achieving those goals. A coaching relationship involves structured conversations, or coaching sessions, that include: - Being listened to actively and deeply - Being asked powerful questions to prompt new insights - Generating options and expanding possibilities for decision making - Identifying and avoiding obstacles to your progress - Focusing on forward progress and being action-oriented In our coaching sessions, you will be encouraged to look at your situations from a different perspective and to be willing to move forward differently as you gain new insights. My objective will be to help you get to the point of having confidence and commitment to a line of action you have identified for yourself.

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Holly J. –
When I spoke with Kris, I initially wasn’t clear on what I was needing to work through, and she began by asking questions to help me gain clarity. In discussing situations that I was struggling with, she offered guidance and relatable experiences, but she did not tell me what to do, which at the time I was kind of hoping for. Instead, she guided me to come to some of my own conclusions and she asked questions that revealed more of what I was thinking and feeling internally, which was more of what I really needed. I appreciated how well she heard and worked to understand my thoughts and feelings rather than just moving through the conversation. This allowed me to feel heard and ultimately better understand myself.

Jennifer H. –
Kris is nothing short of amazing and was an incredible gift to me as I navigated an unfamiliar territory in my life. With her guidance and encouragement, she helped me sort my options and make decisive plans that not only aligned with my core values and goals but also made me proud of the person I was becoming. Her coaching is truly transformational, and I know that I can reach out anytime I need a champion in my corner. I cannot recommend her enough!

Caran J. –
“From the moment I met Kris, I felt a strong connection with her. She is warm and energetic, as well as patient and deeply compassionate. Kris created a safe space for me to share what was on my heart. She partnered with me as we explored new ideas and perspectives. She asked probing questions that challenged me and helped guide me to come up with creative and empowering solutions for my problems. I highly recommend Kris as a transformational coach and know that others will be blessed by working with her as I have been.”

Rachel S. –
Not only has coaching been beneficial for me, but it’s been beneficial for my relationships as well. Kris is a selfless teacher, motivator, and advocate for you and your well-being. Coaching gave me the strength to take the first step to seek support through therapy. Because of that, my life has been changed in ways I didn’t know was possible. The relationship I had with myself was what needed the most work. Being able to understand the motivation and influence I need has provided me with so much freedom! Kris gave me a safe space to talk about what I was going through. She has an incredible aptitude for understanding what you need and what you’re trying to explain. My experience with her can never be replaced.

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